tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post2480805243812390425..comments2023-05-11T02:56:34.256-07:00Comments on @ThaFamousNobody: Oh So You Mad? pt. 1ThaFamousNobodyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06935036620077839431noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-9573768193872433622009-12-10T07:16:45.671-08:002009-12-10T07:16:45.671-08:00High Five DizzyHigh Five DizzyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-72218829719395952992009-12-09T19:54:23.457-08:002009-12-09T19:54:23.457-08:00Regardless of how much money women bring home, how...Regardless of how much money women bring home, how much shit we own ourselves. We're still gonna need the male counterpart. We're still gonna need DICK, a hug, and someone to comfort us. <br /><br /><br />So despite the whole "roles are changing" women are still going to need to learn certain basics that are essential to being a women i.e; cooking, cleaning etc ...Lyrik Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13804149001579829552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-27775081562898651882009-12-09T19:45:51.418-08:002009-12-09T19:45:51.418-08:00I agree with Cee Frizzle. Dizz isnt saying women n...I agree with Cee Frizzle. Dizz isnt saying women need to go get an apron and stay at home...but do what a women needs to do. Be the nurturing factor, cook, clean, take care of the home and the people in it- while a man goes out protects his family, provides for his family...yes now a days you can see the "roles" change out where sometimes the man can be the stay at home father, and the mother out making money...<br /><br />ok...well we arent talking about that here. he is talking about simply, knowing how to do take care of ourselves in order to step up and take it to a family or relationship situation.<br /><br />and Clara...kudos to your mama teaching you all that you know. Most single mother do not go as far as to teach their daughters how to mow the lawn and handle what is "a mans job"...so good for u and u go girl. I too can mow the lawn, wash the car, change a tire, replace spark plugs in my car, and more...so dont go get offended, he's not bashing you by any means. this blog is not intended for you if you have all that going on! howeverrrrr....if you have all that going on, why are you a single mother? if you can cater to a man and have all the patience in the world for someone you care about...than why are you a single mother? is your reason because "there arent any good men in the world" cuz that is wrong. you havent found the right one for YOU. or you are doing things wrong, by feeling you are omega woman perhaps since you have been taught these things. Men need to feel needed in a womans life for many of reasons...and if you dont give any reasons...you will stay single. end of story. I recommend Steve Harvey's book to you, and some deep thinking about your personal opinions and have more of an open mind because all that is being said can possibly help you out.<br /><br />Anyways, I enjoy this and am glad you are openly giving your opinions on it Dizz.<br /><br />-AJAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-24337519152362014912009-12-09T18:52:55.814-08:002009-12-09T18:52:55.814-08:00ok dont get me wrong I get a lot of the things you...ok dont get me wrong I get a lot of the things you are saying and im not COMPLETELY DISAGREEING with u E, u make some good points, I was just explaining more on WHY it is what it is today....but I do agree with what Ciara said. And when i said roles are changing, i also mean our expectations and needs from MEN are changing a little as well. Yes we may need or rely on men for certain things that we cannot do ourselves or prefer for a man to do. However, being that women are more independent these days we dont need men to the EXTENT or for the same reasons we ONCE DID.MarisaJadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07106390190227143016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-1516525327305983452009-12-09T18:24:41.788-08:002009-12-09T18:24:41.788-08:00Again Clara you have angry thoughts about this pos...Again Clara you have angry thoughts about this post. You seemed to be disturbed by it the most. First I want to ask why because you know how to cook and "cater" to a man. Is it because you know how to do these things and still single? Well the problem lies with you. Probably because you so angry for no reason. I know I'm not a man, duh. I'm on my way though. If you find these posts funny I'm glad you are amused and glad I could put a smile on a strangers face. <br /><br />I simply want to know why YOU are so angry at what I'm saying if you in fact can cook and take care of home. I'm confused. Am I missing something? When you say what you are looking for. You can get that from a best friend. Hell you can get that from a dog if you train it right. What's the sense of dating then? I think you should want more from someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with. It will make it that more special. That's just me though. But you have a blessed one and I wish you the best on your endeavors. :)ThaFamousNobodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06935036620077839431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-44746301342039978142009-12-09T18:00:28.067-08:002009-12-09T18:00:28.067-08:00Okay So I find this post even funnier than the las...Okay So I find this post even funnier than the last. Especailly this part ----> One thing you have to remember is that I am speaking from a mans point of view". Scrap the man part insert male, because from what I read that's not the word of a man but a male. <br /><br />Another thing I competely disagree with and find funny----> "But why do I have to be patient for you to catch up on something you could have learned growing up? Are you going to be patient with me until I get my funds up? Are you going to be patient with me while I learn how to fuck?...." Honestly your wrong I will defintely be patient with a man as he learns to do all of these things IF he's worth it. Part of being in a relationship is growing with your partner as you both learn how to be better men and women. If you don't know how to grow with a person they could get left me behind or you can.<br /><br />To answer your question-----> "If you bring home your own bacon, if you got your own shit, what is it that you need a man to do these days. I'm not being sexist, I'm saying women should stay at home, I'm simply asking?" How about to be someone I can count on, to be supportive, to be a parnter, someone to be there when times get hard.Might sound simple but a lot of men can't accomplish this task.<br /><br />~ClaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-77166659964838796402009-12-09T17:59:18.930-08:002009-12-09T17:59:18.930-08:00OK so 1st things 1st I cant speak for anyone but m...OK so 1st things 1st I cant speak for anyone but myself & since i inspired this post heres my take on it. When i was younger I was much more fascinated & focused with making money, so with all the free time I had thats what i was doing. Now Ive gotten to an age where im in school, no job BUT iHAVE a decent amount of money, but still have not learned how to cook. However, this is one of my priorities & like i said the second i graduate I will strictly be focused on that just like i was with making money when i was younger. So yeah maybe i didnt take the time out to learn how to cook back then but i was doing other things. Shit and honestly i feel what i was doing a lot of guys should have BEEN doing but 99% of the guys i meet are broke or struggling & dnt have their shit together financially. However, honestly if i really really like them i would still fuck with them & i'd be patient with them so i expect them to be patient with me. So basically what im trying to say is even tho a lot of us women today dont know how to cook but still constantly talk about how we want a man and all this.....at the end of the day most of our priorities are still right. We understand the fact that no one is going to do shit for us or pay our bills or provide us with the financial stability that we need, so we make it a priority to take care of that ourselves. Cooking's important & like u said its about taking care of a man...but shit, no matter how much we talk about wanting a man....we also know we have to take care of ourselves first before we start taking care of someone else. So thats why i said BE PATIENT. I'd do the same. I understand its not all about cooking though, its wanting a woman to be a woman...well theres just too many men in the world today that arent men...so on top of being a woman & handling woman responsibilities...a lot of us have to handle the traditional male's responsibilities too. Shit we cant do it all! So if I have almost every damn near quality u want in a girl EXCEPT I CANNOT COOK YET.....shit u better STFU and be patient or go find u a woman that can cook and cheat on her ass cuz ur not satisfied with her mentally and emotionally and blah blah blah. Bottom line is: women make sacrifices for men so much....men need to learn to do the same! And if not then I guess its jus gonna be a lot of unhappy or single people out in the world!MarisaJadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07106390190227143016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-34839131060909811972009-12-09T17:37:18.495-08:002009-12-09T17:37:18.495-08:00wow. i knew someone was going to get offended. I&#...wow. i knew someone was going to get offended. I'm glad you spoke your part because a lot of women out there are so clueless but your right in pointing it out dizzy. i give you props for that!<br /><br />p.s. for me someone loving, honest, and that communicates well will be all i need. I'm not the one to go for looks or money because that doesn't get you happiness :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-26512377102502948232009-12-09T17:29:37.935-08:002009-12-09T17:29:37.935-08:00lol...what is funny is I agree with you. It goes ...lol...what is funny is I agree with you. It goes beyond cooking. The blog was deeper than cooking. But anyway. I make my own and have my own, that doesn't mean that I won't let whomever I am with do his duty as a man and take care of home. Yes times are changing, but I look at that as a way for my man and I to build an empire and be strong together, Though he will always feel like he is the shit.GDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03917716452109522729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-19761578030344048792009-12-09T17:10:36.869-08:002009-12-09T17:10:36.869-08:00I'm so happy you brought up the question, &quo...I'm so happy you brought up the question, "What do you want a man to do?"<br /><br />During the summer when I was having bad guy problems, I picked up Steve Harvey's book, which is an excellent read, and it was in the chapter about why men steer away from POWERFUL women that the question you asked applied.<br /><br />Roles are changing, yes, but there are still things that we should know how to do because we're in that certain gender role. If a woman can do everything that a man can do, then what will she need him for? That's when a man feels he isn't needed and bounce. You are free to do things especially if you know how to do them. But stopping a man from being a man is one hell of a relationship breaker. And its not right.<br /><br />A man wants to feel needed! Cuz he was taught along with many other things to protect his family and those he loves. If he feels like he can't protect you, what is he there for?Cee Frizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10326791916786461179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-14748138367160710632009-12-09T17:07:55.344-08:002009-12-09T17:07:55.344-08:00Wow...honestly...I have to say I agree with you on...Wow...honestly...I have to say I agree with you on this one...!! Well said...kudos!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14054252802839981186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2575324557633251542.post-6101780127027507432009-12-09T16:53:32.674-08:002009-12-09T16:53:32.674-08:00Preeeeaaaach!! I agree with you 100% Dizz. Point b...Preeeeaaaach!! I agree with you 100% Dizz. Point blank. Period.Eva B.noreply@blogger.com