Think like a nigga so you wont get played like a bitch? Really?
So I was talking to someone and she said "I think like a nigga so I don't get played like a bitch." That has to be the DUMBEST thing I have ever heard in my damn life! For all the women that think like this, KILL YA SELF!
First, how do men think? You mean to tell me you have evaluated every man in the world and think like us? I know some guys and I be like, "what the fuck were you thinking." Not all men think alike. Also, if you think like a man, you wont get played like a bitch because NO MAN LIKES A WOMAN TO THINK LIKE A MAN, that's GAY! I personally don't want a woman who thinks like a man cause a lot of men don't be thinking about shit. I always looked at women to be smarter then men in every aspect except love. Even the smartest women appear to be the dumbest person in the world when it comes to dealing with men. I don't think you have to think like a man, just think period!
Some women get some good dick and a mediocre conversation and their intelligence flies out the window. They become a whole nother person for the most part. I don't know why that is but I sure wish it wasn't like that. But thinking like a man isn't how you fix that problem. The world would end if all women thought like men. Ugh, that a be horrible. Who ever thought of that quote was dumb as fuck. Why would you stoop down to think like a man to keep from getting hurt? Not saying us men are stupid, not at all, but when you say that that's the impression I get. Women, just be more careful who you talk to and lay with. Just think period, not like man. Peace. -DizZy
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LoL..I agree w/ you 100% on this wack ass phase.
SMH...
hahah what was that girl thinking...
how ironic
she wasnt thinkin at all
smh
i have to disagree with you and agree with the girl who said it.
When she says "think like a man" theres nothing GAy about that. It simply means dont get all emotional like most girls. Granted, most men DO have the tendency to not give a fuck who they hurt in relationaships , there very selfish.
SO my hat tips off to her.
I am so tired of the whole asking Steve Harvey and men things like women don't have their own brain when it comes to relationships. You don't need a strategy, you should like somebody for who they are. It's like the game of Rock Paper scissors, if you keep thinking of the person's next move, you get nowhere. You just have to go with the flow.
this shit is def true_ i dont understand the quote myself...
because if ur a women truly seeking the [right] man then why is it that u think all men are dogs??? i mean....
this clearly tells you that her choice of men are [below] standards......a girl can only know what she subjects herself too.
smh_
yea to ariana._ i seen it on Oprah..
i was in such disbelief .... they literally had women feel like they had to go to the nigga for advice on how to deal with triflin guys _ lol...and then he generalized all men like they are all equal....
im not the one to say i had the best relatiosnships _cuz thats def not the case!... but i mean.... u just have to evaluate who ur around and the people you choose.
its too the point where the wealthiest female of the U.S [a strong one at that] _Oprah. taking the advice from a comedian who knows "all men"
so true, you can't label all men as the same.
It's always a single woman telling the world how she think to stay single. I don't hear my grandma saying think like a nigga, thats how I got my husband for over 40 years. These dumb ass tactics don't work. Dating isnt like chess, either he likes you or he don't. Thats it. Anything more is just extra and all in folks head. This isn't a "game", dating isnt a game and as soon as you approach it like one, you will get played and left lonely.
smh_tru tho.
I'm just sick of women playing the damn victim all the time and the world portraying women as the victim of broken hearts. it's wack.
men get their heart broken too. Women cheat just as much if not more than men so yea, I know im a lesbian, but straight girls need to just stop acting like men are the enemy and the conquerer of all souls.
They are simple and it's them that attract the wrong ones. Why would you want to "deal with" a trifling man? why not leave all bullshit "im in love with him" side along, be strong and leave to the next better deal.
iuno. it's lame. im tired of the subject.
I'm guilty to a certain extinct, while I don't think like a man. I find myself saying "I treat them like they treat me."
good post .
The whole thinking like a man thing seems ironic, but 'Jasmine Nicole' saying I treat them like they treat me is def something I can agree with... Do unto others as you want done unto you.. Gender should not matter.. If you can`t handle something try not to do it & vice versa... No man has to act like a woman or woman acting like a man.. smh
really wtf is thinking like a man.
just because a few dudes have acted similar towards her - mite just be the way she is why they treat her that way why she thinks she's 'sussed' them out.
what a dumbass! why (tf) should you have to play a dude? he probably wouldn't wanna eff witchu anyways. yes everyone knows, for the most part, females think differently than males generally, but if u see they ain't worth your time, why the chase? or maybe she's in it for the chase. wtf is thinkin like a nigga? she wack. she prolly defines being a nigga.. a dude that likes pussy games, and i literally mean pussy. grow up joeeee. one word WACCK
worddddd, i agree with you!
SMH. I always thought that was a dumb quote. LMAO Like all dudes think the same way? WTH!
Some females just have the metality as if they can control or prevent themselves from getting hurt. It doesn't work that way!
Completely agree with that last part. Sooooo true!
Everyone has some kind of defense to keep from getting hurt, too bad people dont realize their mind is the best defense
thats such a disappointment, that the statement had to come from a woman. Desperate times calls for desperate measures...
"NO MAN LIKES A WOMAN TO THINK LIKE A MAN, that's GAY!"
The sad thing is that ALOT of females actually believe this. They won't tell you know (laughs) because you've blasted it and they feel stupid, but this is 90% of females mentality. "If I just do what most men I fuck with do, then I won't end up getting hurt." Yeah... NO SIMPLE BITCH - Kat Williams.
If women stopped fuckin' with fuck niggas who treated them like shit they would have no reason to think such ignorance. It's just that too. Ignorance. They speak on something they know nothing about. They draw conclusions and build a perspective on what ONE or TWO guys did and then mold every man into that one screwed catorgory.
Thats why they are the first ones screamin' at they homegirl to leave the GOOD nigga she is with. Misery loves company.
HA HA Think like a nigga all you want baby girl, you're the one livin' your life alone. I'm continue to think like me.
i'd have to laugh on this note; the way that the sentence was worded "think like a nxgga so i won't get played like a bxtch"; is a bit off in itself. makes her sound like she's had past issues or was trying to get you to relate to her. funny that you've made a post about this topic, i was getting ready to read "Act like a LADY, think like a Man" by steve harvey (which i see was mentioned on comments above). i haven't read it yet, but i am going to go into it open minded and see what he's talking about.
just because you read something, listen to someone speak, does not mean that you'll take their advice or that you'll be up under them mirroring their very move. you do what you want to do, it's your life, and it's your choice. ok...
now, as far as the girl goes... i won't say she's stupid, dumb, whatever. i'll just say that she has been miss-informed. how many times have you said something without thinking? well, i'm sure it's happened once, so people cut her some slack. i'm just saying.
everyone; please think for yourselves. be smart, and don't let your intelligence fly out of the window (like dizzy said) because you see a cute face (i'll say that) w/a ok convo. goes for both men/women. that happens alot ! (to both genders).
dizzy; maybe you should ask her to break it down; since maybe she thought it made sense. & write a part 2. if she has no valid reason w/ 0 back up; then... tell her to do some homework, then maybe she'll re-phrase what she's said.
me personally; i don't go into a relationship with these tactics, strategies, or what have you. when your in a relationship or even in a friendship you adapt to that person. then you start to act accordingly as they do to you.
As for the single life; you have defense mechanisms ; and if your smart you'll use them quietly. letting them be known will get you know where. many have fall victim to doing the opposite; that's why are not in the relationships they claim "they want" to be in.
one last thing;
go into all things using your brain; don't base your decisions off of emotions. because like diddy said; "emotions will have you broke"... lmfao
enough.
good post.
*no where
*they
-second to last paragraph lol
WTF?! I act like a nigga at times but that's because I hang around nothing but niggas. Every since I was 4. I have 3 OLDER female cousin in my ENTIRE family and that's it. The other 10000000 cousins I got are males so even when I should have been hangin out with little girls alike I was surrounded my niggas. But NEVER... and I do mean NEVER!!!!... would I intentionally 'think like a nigga so I won't get played like a bitch! What kinda of bass ackwards BULLSHIT is that?!?!?!?!?! That is the stupidest shit I have EVER heard of!
And I'm with Ariana.... How is Steve Harvey gonna tell me how to 'Act like a LADY' when he a nigga? Also... another GREAT point.... Live life like it's supposed to be lived... one day at a damn time. And stop worrying about the next move. If it was meant for you to know everyone's move God would have given you the ability to see the future.
LOVIN it DizZ!
*NikkiLeggs ... Better with time*
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