Thursday, April 9, 2009

Her addiction... The Socialite

I didn't realize she was this addicted to it when we first met. I mean, I knew that she liked to do it but never knew it would interfere with our friendship/relationship. Every time I would try to set up a date or something she couldn't fall through with it because she had "prior engagements". I always knew what that meant, she was getting high. Almost every night she was high! I didn't know people got high on Mondays and Tuesdays. I finally confronted her about it and she brushed me off as if i was blowing it out of proportion. She always hit me with the, "I'm young, i have my whole life ahead of me, stop acting as if your my dad." I never understood how she became like this. She use to be such a sweet girl until she was exposed to her new found addiction. Her favorite drug dealers is Onyx, Velvet Room, Platinum 21, Studio 72, Dreamz, and The Compound! She is addicted to the club life.

She club hops nightly, her and her fellow addicts. She was the silent type in school, real pretty but very seclusive but get a few shots in her and play "She Got A Donk", she all on the bar poppin her ass! Never was the fighting type, you cut her in line at the bank, she don't mind.. You cut her in line at the velvet room and she ready to knock ya head off. I asked her why she go out so much, she shrugged and said "I do it because it I kinda get a rush." I then replied and asked her do she ever get bored drinking the same drink, listening to the same songs and seeing the same faces.. She looked at me puzzled and said "um, no. Well sometimes but what else is it for me to do?"

She is down on life because every man she dates is a jerk and she can't meet nothing else but jerks because every man she meet is always in the clubs. The guys she do meet who aren't party animals and socialites, she doesn't pursue them because they seem to be "lame". School is fucked up because she doesn't know where she will get the money from for her last 3 semesters. Her boss is a bitch because he cut down her hours and the only thing that gets her feeling like everything is okay is going to the club, taking a few shots and forgetting all about it.. Until 4:00 a.m. The club closes at 3 am, she lingers around the parking lot with her other fellow addicts until they rally up more addicts and go to waffle house. Everyone eats and as she leaves and drives up 20, she realizes her life is still FUCKED! Better The Velvet Room then Crack or alcohol huh? Depends on who you ask. -DizZy

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Kita Katt Monroe April 9, 2009 at 3:55 PM  

damn... that shit was deep... thats content from a true ARTIST.. creativity lives!

JuJu April 9, 2009 at 6:38 PM  

damn i used to be like this til i had a hard ass reality check.. and still know a LOT of females like this but had to cut them off to better myself..

kmx. April 9, 2009 at 7:45 PM  

Damn m'maaan; very well written. But sometimes that can be just as bad as drugs or alcohol. Like you said depends on who you ask.

Ashley Marie. April 10, 2009 at 12:23 AM  


JAYFENDii April 10, 2009 at 4:55 AM  

As always, good read! And just like the other comments.. I too knw quite a handfull of ppl with this addiction. And the sad thing may be.. Is that I'm one of those ppl. Well I use to be at least. & now I graduated from the buyer to the saler. & yu tell me if I've gotten worse?

Dani April 10, 2009 at 5:28 AM  

I agree with your message, particularly your ending. However, considering the title of my blog, "Living, Breathing Socialite," nothing you described defines a true "socialite. A "party girl" and "socialite" aren't one and the same. A socialite does do a lot of entertaining and enjoys being entertained, but there is a heavy emphasis on philanthropy, social networking, and class. I know it's off subject, but I just felt a little played by the title because the word was completely misused.

E Dot DizZy April 10, 2009 at 8:47 AM  

Saave the emotions! she calls herself a socialite.. so I took what she said and used it. hit her up with the feelings =/

Hippoleetoe April 10, 2009 at 3:05 PM  

Thats really deep. I like the the way you put the message .. it just saddens me with the subject. Hopefully her rock bottom isn't too bad and atleast she has you as a friend

Ms. Naomie April 10, 2009 at 9:27 PM  

Wow. I used to be able to relate to a couple of the characteristics of "The Socialite" & like JuJu said I had a hard ass reality check & put all of that shit behind me & keep it moving.

Anyways well written as always. Even tho I'm not blogging anymore. Your blog is the one of the few I read, and as of late, (sporadically) comment.


Athena Christine. April 10, 2009 at 10:10 PM  

I know a few bitches like that...

Sentrell April 12, 2009 at 12:28 PM  

good post! I believe clubbing is just like any other you said it just depends on who you ask!

Nicole.king38 April 13, 2009 at 8:27 PM  

DEEP AS HELL DizZer!!!! But sadly... I knew a chick like that! Well I don't think she was THAT bad but I knew a chick who would claim she was havin withdrawals from goin to the club. WTF!!!!

Love it DizZ!!!

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DAUCHÉ April 14, 2009 at 1:39 AM  

love it !

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