Thursday, November 26, 2009

Crash site.. Ground zero

Have you ever rode past a crash site on the highway? You try to slow down just a little so you can see if anyone was killed or how bad the cars look. You know that someone is hurt but you don't know how hurt and hope they are alright. You cringe as you pass by it just hoping things are okay.

Meeting a woman who is still recovering from a broken heart feels the same way to me. I walk on egg shells around them because no matter what you say it might remind them of the crash. They often think back on the heartache and just seem so out of it. I have talked to a few females who were heartbroken and still dealing and its not easy hearing them talk about it. I mean, its just like a crash. You don't know what happen, you don't know who fault it is, all you know is that someone is still hurt from it. Specially if you are trying to get at them and didn't know about the crash, its all bad. They ask you about your ex's and you tell them. You ask them about their ex's and they spill their guts on how hurt they really are. No matter how hard they try to mask their emotions, they deal with them everyday. Just like a broken arm, burns, bruises a heart takes time to heal. A heart don't have bandages though, it don't have cream you can put on it and you can't pop any pills to make the pain go away.. The only that can heal it is time. I know a lot of people who have been heartbroken and they act and talk just like someone who was in a real crash. "It was just fine then all of a sudden, it was over" I know this is a unexpected comparison but it makes sense to me. Its just sad because the damage is done and someone is hurt. The crash plays over and over in their head and it sucks. I don't have a moral to this or anything. I was just talking to someone who heart was broken and this crossed my mind. So.. Yeah.. Peaceee! @EDotDizzy (hit me on dat twitter)

5 comments:

Cee Frizzle November 26, 2009 at 6:04 PM  

That's one hell of an analysis, Dizzy. Random but excruciatingly true.

This post was one of my faves.

ashdani87 November 26, 2009 at 10:52 PM  

I soo feel you on this one but what about the people who are in relationships and still feel that way...like whats up with that...you have someone so why are you acting like you still lonely and broken hearted?!?! I guess they never healed from the last crash...

Lauren S November 26, 2009 at 11:53 PM  

You pinned it down exactly, man. I'm that girl right now and everything I do, say, see, or hear reminds me of him and it's hard but I know one day I'll feel better.

Thanks for posting this. I'm glad there's someone out there who gets it :)

Audrey. November 27, 2009 at 8:23 PM  

Sometimes I feel like people who have a broken heart don't even realize how much a heartbreak effects them. It takes over your whole existence. It makes you do things that you don't even think about, and most of it is shit you wouldn't do if you were in your right mend.

ANd like you said, time is the only thing that can mend a broken heart.

Cyn B. December 5, 2009 at 12:46 AM  

I love this one.
You got another reader! lol

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