So.. You Celibate?
I meet a lot of females that are celibate these days. I ask them why and the give me 1 of 2 reasons. A, they holding out until they get into a real relationship or B they doing it to be more spiritual. To get more in tuned with themselves because sex was a big distraction. Now the first reason, waiting on finding a partner I can understand and respect. Anything other then that reason is just silly to me. If you can't have sex because it distracts you from life then my friend you have a problem. If you just decide to not have sex I can respect that but don't make up a crazy ass reasons that make you look like you can't control the little man eater between your legs. I know that secretly some women don't have sex because they enjoy it way too much and want it more then they would like to admit. I don't want to offend the celibate females that read my rants because that's all they are. I know a female that said she was being celibate so she can be closer to God. If the guy dick was that good that it made you lose sight of God, maybe you should keep him around. I know if I had a girl who made me get out of touch with what I believe I am going to marry her. That's some powerful pussy. If sex distracts you from being you then what you gone do when you get married? Stop having sex for two months so you can regroup then pick it back up? Can a celibate female please tell me what's this all about. Please.
2 comments:
I'm about to be celibate after the last couple of negative relationships I've been in. I feel like a lot of guys I've encountered lately are more concerned in sex with a new girl every other week rather than being in a committed relationship. I'm gonna remain celibate till i bump into a man who will take me serious, until then school and work will keep me warm at night. I feel like sex is a special thing and should only be done in monogamous relationships because I'd hate to be labeled as "that girl that's been around" when i walk into a room. The key thing for me is trust, love, time investment and honesty in a person if i have those we can bump and grind till the crack of dawn but if not i don't give a damn (cobwebs can grow down there) I'm not compromising my integrity.
This an easy one. The reason women are celibate for spiritual reasons is because they want to free themselves from fornication, which is one of many sins. They feel that in becoming celibate, God can see that they are trying their hardest to live a Christian (or whatever other relion) life in the way that He wants us to live.
Getting premartial dick would be a distraction, but not to the extremem where one would completely forget God.
It's all a part of the individual's spiritual process. And when it come's to marriage i believe that was the whole point of celibacy in the first place. To find "the one."
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