Saturday, February 21, 2009

Im.. Just not that into.. Us?

A female friend asked me about females and what not and figured id just make a post about it..

No matter how much you care for me, how much money you spend on me, how much you see us together in your head, how much you text me and try to get to know me, no matter how many times we have sex, no matter how many dates we go on, no matter how many times we lay up and watch a movie in my room, I just won't be that into you.

See dating to me is more serious now that we not in middle/high school. I only make things official if I can see us together for a long period of time. Just because you see us together don't mean we seem the same thing. I know its wrong for me to entertain the idea of us. I'm sorry. But if I tell you that I no longer want to do these things, your going to make up some reason as to why we should keep "this" going. You claim that your not getting emotionally attached but I see it in your eyes when I tell you we can't hang because I got a session or something.

So, were going to keep this going until you get mad that my feelings didn't change over time as you had planned. You tell all of your friends how much of a jerk and asshole I am and have them screw they faces at me, thats cool. I know what comes along with it, just telling you now that.. I'm just not that into.. Us. =D


briit February 21, 2009 at 8:13 PM  

i can agree....sometimes.

i think women have this mentality too. but be careful tho cuz the way you treat women now, may come bak...meaning a female that you MAY be that into may flip a switch & not want what you want in return.

but def liked the post.
i think a lot of people in this day && age feel like you do.


E Dot DizZy February 21, 2009 at 8:44 PM  

Did't say i feel like this all the time. A friend asked me to write about this in my own words :D

JAYFENDii February 21, 2009 at 9:53 PM  

i think this was a good post (once again) and i agree.. i agree with most of what was said. its lowkey rude to let it build. but if the female is the kind to make up excuses for everything then every word said (i think) is correct & that's the way it should be. hhm.. i love reading yur blog

JKisz February 21, 2009 at 10:07 PM  

Your honesty makes me laugh. Not in a bad way, though. But you gotta be real and upfront with people. Let people know what you want and don't want and they can either go with it or dismiss themselves. And if they feel that they can understand and be cool with how you feel then hey, that's great.. If not then you already know. But I'm really feelin this post. Hell I'm feelin your blog as a whole.

chanel February 21, 2009 at 11:31 PM  

ayy i agree with briit.

and yeah, i def know what you mean by not feeling the idea of there being an "us" while the other is sooo into the idea of an "us." it's crazy, but you can't force yourself to like someone just as much as they like you and you definitely shouldn't force a relationship when you're aware that you're just not that into them or whatever.

oh well, what can ya do? ya can't please everyone... even if you lose a cut buddy... ha, ya win some, ya lose some.

Deme February 22, 2009 at 8:56 AM  

wow..i completely agree.

I never see why people just date for the experience.
Why experience something that isn't what you want or will need.

The title only means something if there's more behind it then just words.

Lindsay Chanel February 22, 2009 at 11:21 AM  

I like this one babe, and I think that the honesty comes out as blunt, but there's no need to sugarcoat some things. You can't force the idea of "us", just gotta sit back and let things come. =)

Nicole.king38 February 22, 2009 at 11:44 AM  

Been on both ends of this stick.... BOI!!!! And I found out in a very 'rude awakening' type deal that it's not just females tryin to string you along so your feelings get extra caught up.



Ms.Philly February 22, 2009 at 11:52 AM  

wooow that was intense lol
I really like the idea of u puttin it out
there and keepin
it a hunnit...and i fasho feel
u on the relationship thing because
if u gon do it, do it fully, dont half ass be
in no relationship because then its no point
but if that grl say
she aint catchin feelins
she's lying bcuz she definitely is
its just in a females nature.
Good lucc with that situation tho
because i know it can stress u out sometimes

Taylorgotbeats February 22, 2009 at 12:52 PM  

at your honest bro, and lmao at those pictures on the side of your blog wit the condoms and the patron

Kiwi February 22, 2009 at 2:54 PM  

oh my god have u been following my life?

Dang I am ashamed to admit it but I am that girl right now and I feel the guy I am talking feels exactly how u feel sometimes...but I still have faith because he keeps telling me that he wants a future relationship but I am starting to fall back...

Good blog dude!

JuJu February 22, 2009 at 6:56 PM  

haha i love how you keep it so raw and real all the time.

Anonymous February 22, 2009 at 7:45 PM  

haha....lmao @ the cheesy face right after u said u just "not that into Us"...damn that would hurt my feelings...but yea, it's not cool to string people along. Some people take it really hard..and one day it could lead to something tragic, whether home girl bust the windows out ur car or some crazy type stuff. Just be careful who you do that'll actually be better just to be all the way honest up front..i've been on both ends, so i know how it hurts to be strung along like that....

E Dot DizZy February 22, 2009 at 8:29 PM  

I love how yall don't read that a female asked me to write this. haha. Lovely.

вʀᴇᴇ ваɴᴋʓ February 23, 2009 at 11:39 AM  

haha well damn thnx for beinq str8 fwd bout it.

Illest Star February 23, 2009 at 12:49 PM  

at least you let it be known on how you feel & where you stand
so it's not like your leading that person on
because you stood by your word
so if her knowningly decides to continue on with this
than it's her fault
because it's not like its a misconception
you made things very clear
& thats one thing about woman
that they automatically think
that since a guy is willing to spend time
& having a good time with them
automatically means its going to lead to something more
so it's good to be clear on how you feel
& never go about things in a hurtful way
because not everyones the same
or thinks the same
so what you see
may not be what she see's
so kudos to you

*E* February 23, 2009 at 4:01 PM  

so... i don't get it. is this how you feel or just a work of fiction?

Anonymous February 28, 2009 at 9:52 PM  

The only female that says "im not emotionally attached", is

Period. Dot at the end!

Qu33n Kam... March 10, 2009 at 6:10 AM  

wow this brought me back to some flash backs! lolz But as brutal as this may sound its true everyone feels this way about someone in some point of time both male and female cuz guys get emoitionally attached too! But im feeling this since i have been on both sides of the fence! Thanks for being honest!

Beautiful Q March 10, 2009 at 2:14 PM  

I can agree! I did this TO a lot of guys...kicked, hung out, watch movies, etc. Then I just stop answering my phone and disappeared on them. They'll call every so often and I'd get extra brand new on em like "Where I know u from again?".....anywayz Karma came back on my ass one good time and thats all it took for me to learn my lesson! :)

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