Saturday, February 14, 2009

The Love Hater..


I haven't had a Valentines since like 6Th grade.. When my mom bought me two tickets to the valentines day dance and Monique turned me down the last minute, literally. I bought roses and candy with my money I saved up.. She bailed on me so I gave the roses to my mom and let my sis Tee eat the candy. I was fucking pissed. I know I was young but I swore I wouldn't put my all into valentines day again. I slipped up in 05 when I bought a big ass bear, flowers and tons of fucking candy for India and she seemed the least interested that I wanted to see her on valentines day. Mind you, she was my girl friend. So I said fuck it, called up my best female friend, went to eat and gave it to her. It seems like when I give my all, I get a foot in the ass for it. Now.. I'm like fuck it all together.

Now I look at it as a day for the world to look down on the people who find peace at being single. Here you have one day out the whole year where everyone is all lovey dubby and shit. Its cute.. I admire those who give their all and get at least 90% back and sorry to all the females who give me 90 and I give them 50% back. Blame my ex's. I have been scorned!

But if your in a relationship, I figure you buy ya counter part cards, candy, flowers, make hotel reservations, cook breakfast and dinner, have great sex, tell them you love them all fucking day but... Why not do that everyday? Like.. why not be spontaneous and do it everyday oppose to the one time your suppose to do it? If we stayed happy about being in a relationship all year long, we wouldn't have soo many unfulfilled relationships we have today. You buy your counterpart that shit July 1st and they think you cheating or have something your trying to hide. I think its funny but I am not trying to hate or rain on any ones parade. Not at all. Just speaking my mind. So as the world sees X's and O's today.. I'm a be on some other shit, writing music and chilling and waiting for the female that will allow me to make everyday Feb 14Th.. Happy Valentines Day. -Eric

25 comments:

A{dot}Shine February 14, 2009 at 7:24 AM  

that was really sweet!! and you'll find her. sooner than you think...and stop lettin yo past fuck up yo future with somebody who deserves you and somebody who will treat u right! gotta move on hun

E Dot DizZy February 14, 2009 at 7:46 AM  

Maaan Shut up! I moved on. Just don't buy em shit!

Ms. Naomie February 14, 2009 at 7:53 AM  

man diz you took all of that right out of my mouth. i always give 100% & in re,turn? nothing. its whatever. valentines day is so damn commercialized it makes me sick

Nicole.king38 February 14, 2009 at 7:55 AM  

I so feel you on this DizZer. Why today gotta be so special? Why say you love so much to the point I can't stand it TODAY? If you love me like that don't wait til the middle of the second month of the year. That's why I've never really celebrated Valentines day. Single or not I just see it as the 45th day of the year.

*NikkiLeggs*

Vonnie February 14, 2009 at 8:24 AM  

Happy Vday Love !

Athena Christine. February 14, 2009 at 8:30 AM  

lol. i feel it. happy vday hun!

kmx. February 14, 2009 at 8:50 AM  

can't say i've ever had a valentine. and it doesn't bother me. i sorta kinda have one this year but it's w/e, i'm not makin a big deal about it. i mean, i profess my love for people all the time, i don't wait for Feb.14th to roll around to do it. great post man! & i hope you find that lucky lady who you feel needs that 100% and that will reciprocate it =]

sneville February 14, 2009 at 12:29 PM  

love is just complicated and painful...you're better off not being in love at all

Whatcha Nameis February 14, 2009 at 1:18 PM  

ugh . Why did you even have a girlfriend that didn't even wanna spend the day with you... sht. Don't be angry because of the past bee . . . Sht , I don't know I understand what your saying though . . but blame america sht cause Valentines day is just commericial like any other sht.

Amau February 14, 2009 at 1:28 PM  

Great Blog!

bree.bankz February 14, 2009 at 2:30 PM  

well i cauqht my ex cheatinq on vday... but i always hated it anyway. qupid can die slowly.

chavita!!! February 14, 2009 at 5:05 PM  

its so just another day lol people relax haha =)

youstilldabomb!
youstilldashit!

chanel February 14, 2009 at 7:22 PM  

ha. i agree with the showin love everyday type business instead of only on valentine's day.
i didn't have a real valentine either [probably ever] but it doesn't even matter anymore. i just went to the hookah bar and had fun with my bff. so whatevaaa.
maybe by nest vday we'll both find ppl to celebrate the "holiday" with.
i hate seeing couple after couple all over tho. haha. that may just be me hatin on the couples... whateva! sheeit.

Princess Katrina February 15, 2009 at 3:15 PM  

you will find her!!! :)

Hippo_Lee_toe February 15, 2009 at 6:12 PM  

Im sorry about your past :[

But you are right, we should be doing this allll year long. :]

JK February 15, 2009 at 7:50 PM  

LMAO! i think i am in love with you!! -kp

Eighty4 February 16, 2009 at 2:35 PM  

awwww i can dig it

Unbreakable February 17, 2009 at 11:01 AM  

This happen son I called my cousin to read this post on your blog because; he is going through some shit just like this.

Good post DUDE.

JAYFENDii February 20, 2009 at 10:44 PM  

ugh i hate vday! lol.

Illest Star February 23, 2009 at 12:53 PM  

just because your scorn due to your exes
doesn't mean everyone is the same
so if someone dedicates 90 percent to you
it's only fair if you do the same
& im not sayin as in a relationship
it can be from a friends point of view

Beautiful Q March 11, 2009 at 2:37 PM  
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Beautiful Q March 11, 2009 at 2:39 PM  

I agree, Valentine's should be everyday without a woman raising her eyebrow with suspicion!

Charleigh March 19, 2009 at 12:56 PM  

Valentine's Day 08...
didn't do a damn thing, but still one of my best V-Days ever.

cae alyssa.ann signin out.. March 20, 2009 at 5:34 PM  

ha! ur vday blog looks like mine!

~NeSsA~ March 20, 2009 at 8:48 PM  

yo diz i can read ur writins all day i am lovin it keep doin u. keep lookin ahead dont dwel on the past.

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