Wednesday, March 25, 2009

The dumb shit that comes along with.. dating?

You like this girl but she not into you %100 because she like this guy, who in turn doesn’t like her because he like some other girl who don’t like him because she is stuck up under some other guy. It’s like an endless cycle of heartbreaks. No one wants to give their all because they don’t want to be the first person that slips and fall into this dark place often called love. Don’t get me wrong, I’m no love hater but love always seems like a dark and cold place when you’re the first person to fall. Even though you fell in love with a person, you still feel alone, foolish, hopeful and regretful. You two aren’t together but you would like to be. Even though nothing is official, you’re in love. Not knowing what the other person is doing or feeling because no matter what they tell you, you still feel like they are leaving something out or lying. You don’t want to appear to be the fool that falls for the person who doesn’t feel the same way about you. You wish you can control your feelings but you can’t. You find yourself thinking about this person at odd times and making future plans when you don’t even know what the future beholds with that person. It’s like your living in a fantasy world dating this person in your head thinking that the person is going to just wake up one day and say, “I want to be with you.” That’s probably not going to happen but who are you to say fuck it only to talk to someone else and go through the exact same shit? You always seem to find the person who doesn’t want to date, who is living life, or talking to someone else. Fucking sucks.

What are you to do? I mean, if you say fuck it, you will be alone… AGAIN! Stuck questioning yourself like, “what the fuck is wrong with me” when there isn’t really anything wrong with you. You seem to always come across the scum bags. Your pride won’t allow you to settle for less then what you deserve so you pass up all the small fries that try to approach you. Days turn to months, months turn to years then you realize that you are and have been single for what seems like fucking forever! And don’t get me wrong, its folks in relationships who still feel like they are single. The communication died months ago, the sex isn’t as good as it use to be, the future plans you planned seem fuzzy on certain days but you stay in the relationship because you are comfortable. What do I suggest we do about this? Hell, I don’t know. *Shrugs*.. I’m about to sleep on this shit. Peace.. -Dizzy

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19 comments:

[.roxie.] =Þ March 25, 2009 at 5:14 AM  

good post. true shit.

Rai March 25, 2009 at 5:29 AM  

The thing is people chase losers. Males and females. And they don't really know what love is.

You shouldn't dare say you love someone that you're not even dating. That's just dumb as hell!

Laur March 25, 2009 at 7:55 AM  

damn.

I was thinking along these lines recently..

Ahhhh relatable & true.

Sei'Lani Britagne March 25, 2009 at 8:25 AM  

I think love is going out of style. in the old days love came easy. the tempations sung about love while nowadays people sing about desperation and lust and infatuation.

Now that the woman is becoming more independent and the man is singing about either a.) wanting a girl he don't gotta take care of (ne-yo, jaime fox) or b.) giving her whatever she like (t.i voice)

women are needing men for less and less things and are less keen about falling in love when they don't really need men for anything more than just babies and a good time. Men seem to need women for the same thing and most look at love as just a fantasitical term until it bites them in the ass at a time they lest expected or needed it.

Beautiful Q March 25, 2009 at 9:30 AM  

I like this one DizZy!

J.Rae March 25, 2009 at 9:45 AM  

i love this !

D. Crayton March 25, 2009 at 10:01 AM  

NiiiiiCCcCeEEE...im glad I started FOLLOWing ur blog... very entertaining and enticing. Whoever left u in this mode must not have known what they were losing. ..

Nellie March 25, 2009 at 10:40 AM  

Wow! I feel you on this post foreal! Good stuff!

chavita!!! March 25, 2009 at 1:05 PM  

Inside the mind of dizzy

wow this is a good one!

end the circle of bullshit
keep your standards high
keep shining
smile
and live life haha

she'll come =)

love is great lol

Truthful Trish March 25, 2009 at 1:26 PM  

wow im def feeling this post..(just started following u on twitter lol)
but this is so real
im always in this situation..sucks like shit but people always say "patience is a virtue and blah blah" well those r probably the same people who have some....idk know either about this thing called dating...:)

dauche March 25, 2009 at 2:36 PM  

YESSS ! dizzy; keep it coming.
sooo damn true...

Jasmine Nicole March 25, 2009 at 2:56 PM  

I agree and relate with this post .
keep it up
<3

Kiwi March 26, 2009 at 10:43 AM  

I love u for this Dizzy this is exactly how I feel kinda...I swear u know how to make me feel better and it's coming from a dude

misz talia dunkz March 26, 2009 at 10:58 AM  

LOVe iT diZz! same shit i be wonderin.."why the fuxx am i STiLL single" lol...buh what yuh said is true..ppl do just be staying in relationships so they arent alone && thats their comfort zone..i guess i'd rather be alone then in a fading relationship..buh at the same time everyone needs someone..lol..
so kudos x a trillie!

(oh && thanx for being there after mah deletion ove mah blog!lol)

SongBird March 26, 2009 at 2:48 PM  

oh man,
that use to be the story of my damn life.
i couldnt help but laugh because it is so true.
life feels so scary when your in love by yourself.
but you grow and move on!! lol
this was a good read.

Taylorgotbeats March 26, 2009 at 7:00 PM  

its a crazy cycle this is so true I'm no love hater either, keep this up bro

Ashley Marie. March 26, 2009 at 10:42 PM  

i have to say that i agree with this story...alot

i always talk to my friends about situations like this_[im the one who always ends up with the guy who has an ex he swears he's over. but never really is]

i mean...wen will the dday come.._wen im the ex... [he cant get over] ..... although thats nuthin to be happy about...because thats when u settle into a past relationship that didnt work..._excusing the title..

wat an eff.n waste.

bringing me back to the point of....where do i fit in the picture_ and if i dont.. then y did u even apraoch me. or let it go this far?! ..... ill never know

theyre r no boyrfriend/girlfriends. just favorites_ the person u want to spend most of ur time with during that moment of ur life. thats it

h00pdrmz March 28, 2009 at 12:10 PM  

i can relate 2 this post...forwards & backwards...question of the day tho...wat is love & will u know when u have it???

Nicole.king38 April 13, 2009 at 10:07 PM  

SOUNDS! LIKE A BUNCH! OF! BULLSHIT! LMAO!!!!

LOVIN it DizZ!

*NikkiLeggs ... Better with time*

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