Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Women and Porn..

I was talking to a female and she joked and said I watch too much porn. I asked her did she watch porn at all and she shunned the idea of watching porn. Said it wasn't needed and she thinks people who watch it have some kinda issues. I wanted to throw a tomato at her goofy ass. Honestly I don't watch a lot of porn. I watched a lot of porn when I was younger and stumbled across the tapes in my moms closet, shhhhh. The more and more women I asked about porn, the more and more I started to get concerned. A lot of women look down on porn and those who watch it. Word of advice, that's how you learn new tricks. I say about 80% of the women who give head don't know what they doing and the same goes men who eat pussy. How will you learn if you don't ask, read or watch porn? People are too embarrassed to ask for advice on how to make their sex better. They think they shit already so asking is out of the questions. You niggas don't read unless its gossip, or a text message so reading is out of the question. PORN IT IS!!

Regardless if people want to admit it or not, sex is a HUGE factor in a relationship. If you ain't better then the next you gone be by yourself or be the "best friend". Whack shit. Same goes for women who don't masturbate. THEIR NOT TO BE TRUSTED! A woman that is not fully happy with their body and ain't doing shit about it like working out, eating better, etc is whack. Men know when a woman isn't fully comfortable in her own skin and we don't like it. A girl who puts a man dick in her mouth should at least know what she doing. A woman should know how to use her pussy to the MAX. A man should know how to use his dick and keep his woman on her toes. It just feels better when you know what you doing. Trust..

Porn isn't nasty. Specially if all they doing is fucking. 2 girls and a cup isn't porn. That's just trifling as hell. However, watching 2, 3, 4, 5 people have sex isn't nasty. They even have plots and shit for you movie lovers! Women, pop a porn in with ya dude or a dude you like and see how excited he get. See if ya sex don't start improving DRASTICALLY. Guys if a girl don't watch porn or masturbate.. There is a BIG chance her sex is dull and boring. Ladies, if a guy lie and say he don't watch porn, don't fuck with em because its a big chance he don't know what he doing. He just sticking it in and hoping to hit something. Or licking the hell out of you and annoying you. Not saying Porn is the tell all be all with sex and making ya shit better.. Just saying it would help those who need help. Women stop being so shy and self conscious and just enjoy it for what it is. Stop neglecting ya pussy when you don't have someone to have sex with. You better rub and love that kitty! You'll feel better and ya guy a like having sex with you. I can almost guarantee it. Then again, what do I know, I'm just a guy who talks to alll my guy friends about what they like and don't like then tell yall. GET ON IT!

If you don't watch porn or masturbate.. Why? What keeps you from rubbing yaself when you feel the urge to bust one? I'm really curious. Comment, PLEASE!

40 comments:

Adrienne Nycole July 21, 2009 at 11:13 AM  

well.. i watched my first porno this past weekend, and i must say i was THOROUGHLY disgusted. i had to turn it off. i dont understand how people get off or turned on by it. shit's weird, and nasty. also, i give the *side eye* to niggas who watch it excessively. it's not a turn off but i def dont know how i feel about it lol but hey, to each his own. do you :)

cae alyssa.ann July 21, 2009 at 11:19 AM  

Okay so porn is not nasty, at all. I watch it, enjoy it, don't touch myself though.

If you enjoy having sex it can teach you tricks..positions, and what men like. it will most likely let you KNOW when a man has ZERO clue about what he is doing so I def agree with u on that!

&& again I do not touch myself..that's for the birds, there are other ways i guess i should say.

Juicy Carter July 21, 2009 at 11:23 AM  

I admit i do watch it (not all the time) and to me its not nasty. but you're right all of my female friends act like its a big deal...i think females do watch it on the low and they just deny it in fear that someone will think they are gross

Emcee July 21, 2009 at 11:23 AM  

Okay..I honestly didn't know that porn bothered women so much. I really don't see the big deal with it. I love porn..lesbian porn..hetero..it doesn't go any further than that though lol. I agree completely that porn can add spice to your sex life...who wants to continue doing the same shit in bed? You have to change it up and try new things..keeps the sex and relationship hot and on edge lol. Sometimes it's not too easy to see how the guy is eating the pussy to learn from it..but a woman can get a great view of tricks to add to her head game. Watching it doesn't make you less of a person..silly..I enjoy it.

and umm I don't know any woman who doesn't enjoy pleasuring herself..whether it's with her fingers or toys. The "D" won't always be there so sometimes you just have to go to work on it.

For once I agree with what you said lol ;)

oh and I read books..lol.

NightFall914 July 21, 2009 at 11:34 AM  

I'm curious if that's an age thing. Cuz the females I know all who are real different from each other all are cool with porn. I think females are initially brought up to see it as "disgusting" but as they get under they see the place and usefulness of it that men have known all a long.

Domenic 'Dom Corleone' July 21, 2009 at 11:49 AM  

I think some females just aren't turned on by watching other people go at it the way guys are.

Funny thing about pr0n, don't you get bored when you see the same scenes over and over? I need to keep my collection fresh or else it just doesn't do it for me. Maybe that's just me.

Then again, I have some classics that I keep tucked away for a rainy day.

As far as learning techniques from pr0n, that's open for debate. Experience has been my best teacher, but pr0n does contain some good pointers.

I feel like, whatever you can do to keep your lady (or ladies) satisfied, do it. If it's watching pr0n for inspiration, go 'head! Male or female, no one should be ashamed of watching sexy time.

Peace E

GL0 July 21, 2009 at 12:06 PM  

LOL @ "you better rub & love that kitty" hahah.. u a foo for this one.

And what are the chances that my CAPTCHA code for this comment is "GROPE" haha, how fitting. Lol

But a lot of times porn is an industry looked down upon from a women's perspective because a majority of porn out there defeminizes and degrades women to the MAX. Beside the sadomasochism and bondage & discipline crap.. women are sometimes treated like dogs and animals in some movies (yes, i've watched).. anybody who says they haven't is quite frankly a liar, because whether u want to or not, u get curious as to what exactly they do.

Although i don't recommend "touching" yourself, i do feel like women need to get to know their own bodies and experiment parts of it that are more erogenous than others (besides the obvious). Know your soft spots, know what turns you on, know your pace and it will help direct ur partner how to make sh*t that more exciting in bed.

The reason i dont recommend masturbating because a female friend of mine is a HEAVY masturbator and its to the point she can't go more than a few hours without rubbin her clit.. and that can get pretty dangerous. God forbid she's put in a situation where she has to stay still or is amongst others for more than a few hours cuz she will go nuts. So don't make it habitual, but explore your body.. it's okay to. Just dont become a nymph like my friend :)

cae alyssa.ann July 21, 2009 at 12:24 PM  

lol i totally agree w/ domenic about watching the same ones..they dont do anything bc u noe whats gonna happen unless it's a CLASSIC that u noe will do somethin..keep it new!

A.R. July 21, 2009 at 12:27 PM  

there's a time and place for porn; when i get the urge, i watch it and do what i need to to bust a nut. it's way safer than fucking random dudes. so until i settle down and can have sex on the regular with one person, i'll continue to use my hands.

avery_s July 21, 2009 at 12:50 PM  

WoW like most i dont see how porn is looked down upon...i watch it time to time...but i enjoy it more watching it with someone i'm lovin haha...but yea if i'm not watching it with another i'm using that bad boy for research... i do agree with the fact that there is no point in watching it faithfully everyday like its the best action pack movie them peeps worry me...but if u(people) do i'm not knocking ya

but i feel u "E" run from the peeps that don't watch porn or masturbate it is the worse and perhaps boring experience i ever encountered...knowledge is a must and yes it does keep a relationship going strong

The Virgin Queen: YonAndrogynous July 21, 2009 at 1:47 PM  

I remember telling my friend to watch porn with her man in order to learn something, you consented my advice.

E Dot DizZy July 21, 2009 at 2:02 PM  

I usually don't comment on yall comments but for those who said touching yaself is nasty or they don't do it.. I raise an eye brow at yall. I mean, if you can't touch ya own pussy then why should I. Adrienne Nycole, you said you was disgusted by it.. Do you like having sex? I'm asking because you said you hated seeing it. Do you like doing it?

I agree with you Dom. Watching the same porno is boring. I agree to that all the way..

Nightfall I do think its a age thing, the younger the more disgusted they are by it.

I love Avery, Emcee and Cae response although I think women should enjoy them self more often and stop relying on niggas to make them feel good. Chances are you can make yourself cum more then someone else can.

Yall females be lying though on my comments. KEEP IT FUNKY!!!

cae alyssa.ann July 21, 2009 at 2:03 PM  

lol all i said was i didnt touch myself..still bust.

Adrienne Nycole July 21, 2009 at 2:10 PM  
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Kim July 21, 2009 at 2:13 PM  

I'm here to break my silence! lol
Yes I do watch porn, and any female you ask that hesitates & says she doesn't is LYING. I think it's an excellent learning experience. You're never too old to learn new things and porn is a great educator. You can actually see what can please your partner the most with the infinite hand/tongue techniques & positions that can drive them wild. For me, porn is a means of personal pleasure when exploring those "hot spots." After that 1st nut I feel less tense & more relaxed, especially if i've been feeling stressed out. It's the safest way to know what pleases your body instead of sleeping around to find out what feels good. Plus, the little practice at home will help a future partner know what you expect from them & with all the notes taken from the pornos you'll have a clearer sense of what to do in the bedroom besides the basic and BORING doggy style/ missionary.

And yea, I take VERY good care of the kitty...all females should =D

okay, im out. Peace!

E Dot DizZy July 21, 2009 at 2:15 PM  

Okay Adrienne I like that better. You was soundin like a real prune! =D

Kim July 21, 2009 at 2:17 PM  

one more thing.

watching porn and pleasuring yourself is soooo much fun. i love it. Makes me worry less about not having a man around. besides, only i can make me cum....im just saying...

Miss.Fortune July 21, 2009 at 2:21 PM  

It took me to get to know myself inside and out before I let a man do the same.. There's nothing wrong wit porn. My friend asked me 1 time "if your husband had a porn addiction what would you do" I told her .. "Shit, I'd watch it with him or let him watch me..no need in arguing over somethin that can be fixed" I will admit..I try my hardest to please my man in the bedroom..but I'm not good at givin head..so porn gives me tips and shit..I'm not ashamed.. At all. Everybody can improve someway somehow

D. Crayton July 21, 2009 at 2:29 PM  

I def agree also DizZy.... and as a female i believe we (male/female) should masturbate NOT just 4 da pleasure but many sex experts have said dat u "find urself" and know what u want/like when u masturbate. porn is NOT nasty at all..its REALLY human...ppl who dnt masturbate have da mentality dat dey need da real thing n sumtimes u do have 2 just pleasure urself..its sumtimes betta den da real thing cuz da real thing sumtimes doesnt please u...But i TOTALLY agree witchu...

GL0 July 21, 2009 at 2:38 PM  

Dom & A.R is up there PREACHIN!
Lol, i had to come back cuz Kim & E was debating about this on twitter again, lol.. so here i am..

Just a sidenote: i can make myself cum harder than any dick has.. its natural & common since we know our own bodies best. If i want a quickie, i can bust a quickie.. 2 minutes, im good. A man wants a quickie, HE gets HIS quickie, the woman is subdued to fabricated moans and faux expressions of pleasure.. im just sayin

-Keepin it 100!

ashcakes July 21, 2009 at 2:54 PM  

i must say that i don't mind watching a little porn every once in a while. i mean...i prefer experiential learning but i must say that watching porn has helped me hone some of my special skills lol. i can confidently say that i know i could give any one of those chicks a strong run for their money lol if i was into that type of thing. and it can spice up things in a relationship. i've watched it with my boyfriend...but to each his/her own. i know that most girls say they get grossed out by it, which may be true. but from what i've learned, men are more visual creatures which explains why they're generally more liable to be consistent porn watchers.

NayNayGotCakes July 21, 2009 at 2:58 PM  

touchin myself is an everyday routine. just like brushin my teeth. porn isnt gross, its alright, i dont need it tho. im not afraid of watchin one with my dude tho.

heartthrob misses July 21, 2009 at 3:08 PM  

i dont understand why females dont touch themselves or watch porn. first of all there is seriously nothing to be ashamed about, i honestly enjoy doing it myself most of the time cause i know my kitty and all my right spots, no dick can make me cum stronger and faster than myself(or maybe i havent met him yet lol) but anyways theres nothing wrong with exploring your body, and for the girls that do it you knowwww that shit feels damn good.

Now on watching porn, i watch it, i get turned on, and i love it. porn is also one of the best sex guides you can learn from. ive personally learned soo many new tricks trust me, and ive watched it with past boyfriends. Dizzy is right alot of girls have no balls to ask for tips and advice. but if those girls watch porn a little more often, some of yall couldve kept your man for a little longer. Sex is a major key in a relationship, so we always gotta step our pussy up, seriously!

and what about those nights when your horny and have no one to give you the dick you non-pussy pleasing girls please tell me what you resort too, cause sorry but id have to handle mine.

some girls need to realize that these things arent imature or disgusting its completly normal, and I'd never be ashamed .

SydniMichael July 21, 2009 at 4:33 PM  

If you're a female and you don't masturbate when you're horny.. you're an idiot. I'm a sexual individual.. so yes.. I do watch porn.. as often as i feel necessary.. and yes I do get that nut in while i watch. It's sex.. what the fuck are you guys so afraid of? And how is masturbation for the birds?? Silly girl... being horny and not getting a nut off is for the birds.. and the ants who get stepped on. lol. ok okay... turn a porn on..sex is sexy.

☆αmbєr☆ July 21, 2009 at 6:18 PM  

well i've watched porn its nothing i do everyday. im not ashamed of it. same goes for dildos and shit like that. i dont sit there touching myself. i have a nigga for that. But im grown. no shame in my game. I think most girls are embarrassed by it. and the ones who think its "gross" are still little ass girls pretending to be women. now on taking sex advice i talk to my cousins, friends and male friends about it all the time. its life. we all do it.. why act ashamed? plus ive worked at a sex store and watch that old ass lady Sue Johnson talk about it on the oxygen channel. lol

miss jae biissshhh July 21, 2009 at 9:17 PM  

lol shout out to my fellow "rub one outters". we put in work! lol. i feel like there is absolutely nothing wrong with a female masturbating. any female that says that she never has touched herself is lying her ass off! nobody can please you like YOU can, so i suggest ya'll shunners of the puss rub get ya lives together so u can even experience a nut, and become professor from some of the dudes! and if u cant please yourself, i suggest u seek help, because that fuckin sucks!

anyone that says porn is gross is lying. some people just feel dirty as a person because they got all hot and bothered by something their parent's told them was wrong. get the hell on with that. you likes to watch, homie! me likey porn sometimes. i can live without it, but it is actually interesting.

Lyrik Marie x3 July 21, 2009 at 9:59 PM  

Diz ! You give some of the weirdest- yet TRUEST advice ...


"A girl who puts a man dick in her mouth should at least know what she doing."

Best line in this post .

Keep it up Diz !

KANDID KLASS!KS July 22, 2009 at 9:13 AM  

i kinda just think porn is boring

cae alyssa.ann July 22, 2009 at 12:14 PM  

I didnt say masturbation was for the birds..i said touching urself was. I dnt need to `touch myself` to get a nut so that's for ME. So don't call me silly if i said it TWICE boo.

DeaZ July 22, 2009 at 12:19 PM  

Anyone who knows me knows I have NO problem with porn. Its like a comedy I can critic (lol). U say u can learn tricks and although thats tru to an extent theres somethings u cant learn like how to properly slob down a dick. Sex is natural. idk y ppl (mostly fellow chicks) act ashamed of anything dealing with it.

Qu33n Kam... July 22, 2009 at 5:08 PM  

first of what up homie!! havent been on ur blog in a while =ox sawwie!! But anyway I love wat u have done with the place all the videos on the side and piks.ima lil tiffed u took off ur fav blog list cuz i was there..but anywho

I LOVE PORN!! to the point to where i think ima lil addicted i watch it like a man i watch it like its the notebook or sum shit lmao... i learned all my shit from porn and have been watchin it since i was about 12 ive been a freak all my life so maybe thats why im ok with it. I feel porn is natural and it helps u get intouch with your sexuality and makes u even more comfortable. Especially if u watch it with ur man and u see wat turns him on and then u can reanact the scenes. I also maturbate thats how i found out i can squirt now i do it all the time and the purpose of masturbating is knowing how and what makes u cum. b4 i started masturbating it took me longer to gain an orgasm from any man because i didnt really understand what my body liked and reacted to. Now i know exactly what spots need to be touched so i can get mine b4 him and be able to tell him what i like and dont like. the best is to masturbate while watchin porn and any man loves a woman who masturbates and loves to watch its all about loving ur body cuz its urs why not touch ur self u touch u everyday when u wash ur body this time ur doin it to feel good!! I feel a woman who doesnt masturbate doesnt fully accept her body and trust me ladies its great to be a woman in the streets but if ur not a freak behind closed doors u can be gauranteed ur man will be cheatin on u or dumpin u soon

Jia July 22, 2009 at 6:20 PM  

I guess my reason for not watching it differs from everybody who posted here. I use to be obsessed with all things sex related and then got involved in it.

If many of you knew even an 'enth of what I know about that industry, you'd probably be disgusted watching it IF your morals and resentment for tainted upbringings ever play a factor.

I don't see the point. Porn doesn't 'teach' you anything except how to get a roundhouse kick to your got damn face for trying some shit on me that you JUST watched on a damn DVD. If you want to know how to best please "MY" pussy, ask ME. Vanessa Del Rio, Carmen Hayes, Ayana Angel blah blah blah don't know shit about what you should do to please me.

Like the first commenter stated...I give an immediate side eye to men who watch it excessively and I most definitely don't tolerate it being watched around me. I don't care if a guy is just trying to 'lighten the mood,' I don't want to see that shit. Besides, it's always 'gross' watching your 'homies' get their backs blown out.

Sorry.

вʀᴇᴇ ваɴᴋʓ July 22, 2009 at 7:01 PM  

u know what... females these days qet on my nerves. bitches in denial. like seriously. dont masturbate ??? FOREAL HOMIE ??? thats a DAMN SHAME. how u qonna expect a man to please u when u dont even know ya damn spots. u miqht as well lay on ya back & let him nut *rolls eyes @ broads & they WHACK SEX. i know yall aint out here doinq nothinq for ya man, cuz if a quy come to me with a list of shi he wanna do ima "side eye" yO ass, "like foreal... she wont do this with u... haha"

best believe if YOU aint tryna do it, someone else will. sad but true. now if u talkinq bout u dont think u should fck ya man to keep him i aqree somewhat but to knock & not try it... naw boo not the move. so when he qo out & fck someone else u betta not look stupid it. cuz "she" will be his "best friend"

so if you aint sure bout what to do betta pop in some lacey (chic is bad]; & learn somethinq. cuz porn is not nasty... well i seen some nasty shit lOl but it just depends on what you watch. overall i'll watch it. no shame. my first time i was hmmm 7? i ran across the channel when my mom was in the shower lOl i was with my lil bro too. hahaha i was just amazed like wow... eva since i been curious. when i was 15/16 i was one of those qirls that said suckinq dick was nasty & lettinq a niqqa eat me was nasty too... hmp that changed in one niqht. best believe i was doinq some shit i didnt think i would eva do... and quess what he loved it =] funny cuz he asked me "you watch porn huh" i lauqhed to my self.

soooo IT COMES IN HANDY ! but if u wanna keep beinq in denial u qonna be like oprah. old. not married. with a neglected pussy *smh*

& if u that scary to touch it, buy a damn vibrator. shit i love mine... i have the best nuts with myself lOl thats real !


& to what jia said... i dont have time to talk a niqqa thro. sorry. ok well its like this... he watches some porn. see somethinq he wants to try then fine. of course ur not qonna know how to do it but u have an idea. thats when u say oh noo i dont like how that feels this way but lets do it that way. no one is just qonna know how to do anythinq if they dont qet it from somewhere.

im done typinq bout this tho lOl..

chavita!!! July 22, 2009 at 7:38 PM  

Well I can say like a few years ago I would be digusted with it but recently I started to like it haha....

But some girls just can't masturbate like me my fingers are to skinny (maybe tmi?) But i t feels so much better when someone else does it for me....

I don't think just cause a girl doesn't know how to masturbate means she isn't good at sex because what happens in the sheets is a toooootal different story...

Uhm long story short I'm bout to start my lil porn collection hehe

xxxx July 23, 2009 at 9:27 AM  

i watch porn and i enjoy it.. i dont see anything wrong with porn or pleasuring yourself. whoever says masturbation is gross is wilding cause how you expect someone else to please you if you dont even know what you like... my mom raised me to be sexually aware and to love my body and explore it.. but yup i like porn. i watch it with my boyfriend. it def makes sex better at times. i have a little porn collection lol i thought i was bad till i went to my bestfriend house this weekend.. her and her fiance has like over 50 pornos..so me being the best friend that i am had to borrow some of those dvds.. lol

Glo July 26, 2009 at 2:15 PM  

Porns great. If everyone partaked in watching it here and there, the world would be a better place.

Word.

S.W. July 28, 2009 at 9:11 AM  

I still see people fronting, even in the comments. Talking about they watch it, but dont touch themselves. I see people saying they have watched it before but dont do it Alot.

Im SORRY! But if you cant name at least 5 pornstars i think YOU have some issues.

Justin Slayer Happens to be my favorite. THAT NIGGA RIGHT THERE is the truth. Pinky Is washed up. She needs to retire. She used to be really sought after. Wesley Pipes is Hilarious, he always cussing girls out "Bitch, Bend Over" That shit has to be the most funniest thing ever. Bria Myles' Body Is one i Almost Envy (No Homo, but she has a nice body)

Watch Porn, Enjoy Life.

AND WHY NOT watch porn with your significant other. Learn new stuff together. Stop being so stuck up.

Rodrika July 28, 2009 at 8:01 PM  

my promise to the kitty and the porn isle in the movie stores" i promise to never neglect you or leave the mind above wondering what new tricks there are to keep the nutts comin...i promise to never leave the $5-10 in my pocket when there is a new release in stores...i promise to never let the spider webs dominate my life...i promise this promise to you to get at least 3 nutts a.......hour....AMEN" lol...i like this post..for some reason i feel the need to mention your post whenever i get back to my blog...

Tashur Raquel August 4, 2009 at 8:51 PM  

@ S.W why must you have issues if you cant name porn stars? lol srsly..fuck the names, they all fuckin so who cares? Anywho, I only wtch porn when im horny. dont watch it on a daily basis, cause its just pointless to me if im not horny. & I have to use a dildo if im gonna masterbate. using my fingers just doesnt work for me -shrugs

@ chavita, I agree 100% just cause you dont masterbate doesnt meant the sex aint good, real talk

Lauren S November 18, 2009 at 5:35 PM  

I know this post is kinda old but I thought about it the other day. I only started watching porn last summer and I finally pulled some tricks I learned outta the bag last night and it was amazing. So I'm def glad I read ya blog. Thanks dude :)

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