Thursday, December 24, 2009

So.. Your gay?

Let me start by saying I am not a homophobe. I don't have many if any gay friends. But I don't have a problem with them. This post is not to the gay men, yall do yall thing and sword fight all yall want. ON GUARD! It's to the girls who date studs. I was in walmart and seen this cute ass girl near the ketchup. She sized me up, I sized her down. She smiled, I smiled. I grabbed the ketchup for my burgers and went to get my cereal. Well I bumped into her again in the milk aisle but this time she was with a stud. The stud started mugging me. Now if anyone mug me I feel like something has to be said but the stud is still a female and no matter what I would be wrong if I hit her in the head with my Fruity Pebbles. Then I started wondering why females date studs. They look like guys.. They dress like guys.. They use dildo's and fuck you like a guy. So.. Why date the stud? I get it that some women aren't attracted to men so they date women. That's cool and I understand. I don't understand girls who date fake guys though. I know you don't get a sense of security with the fake guy. Can someone please break that down for me? I'm not trying to be an ass, I just don't understand that concept. Like, if you like girls looking like a guy, then just be with a guy. You get the same thing right? But the real thing. I hope I made sense and didn't come off like a complete ass. I am a complete ass but I know how some folks are about that topic. Sensitive! Help me out so I can know. Thanks. Peaace!


Anonymous December 25, 2009 at 4:27 AM  

I completely get what you're saying. I say it all the time. When I see it, I always say the same thing. I say " If I'm going to date a girl, she better look like one, and there better not be a 'guy' in the relationship". Everybody thinks I'm crazy. I don't get it, I thought women were trying to get away from men. BTW, Merry Christmas.

Rai December 25, 2009 at 5:52 AM  


Only time I feel like it's retarded to date a stud is when females say and swear up & down "OMG! I hate men, I'm through with them." ...yet go date a girl who looks just like a man.

Makes absolutely no sense at all.

A.R. December 25, 2009 at 7:05 AM  

yeah, i don't get it either, if you want someone that looks like a man, just fucking get A MAN.

Anonymous December 25, 2009 at 7:16 AM  

Yeah I wonder the same thing...

LaTonya Bynum December 25, 2009 at 8:04 AM  

e, I too am like you and want to understand this. No you are not being an ass but I am really looking forward to understanding this too! I will be checking in to see why???? Merry Xmas to ya.

Lyrik Marie December 25, 2009 at 8:46 AM  

Thats a good question ..
Though I wont be able to answer, I can share my perspective ..

I've been a student in this all girls high school for 4 years now ..

And all the friends I've made through out high school are gay..

When a femme dates an AG .. Its usually for the emotional attachment .. The emotional connection that the femme finds within the AG that she cant find from a regular man ..

Thats just what I've witnessed with all my gay friends ..

astoldbybrody December 25, 2009 at 10:28 AM  

yeaaa...same i just don't understand that shit lol

Aspirations Of Being TheBEST . December 25, 2009 at 10:51 AM  

i ALWAYSSS say this .
glad i'm NOT the only one who ponders on that question .
i hope somebody thats gay let us know whats up .

thatonegirl. December 25, 2009 at 8:12 PM  

I think it's more for the personality of the stud. Studs look like guys, act like guys, fuck like guys.. but they act and have the sensitivity of a female. I think that most lesbians who date studs love the whole physique of a man, but hate the attitude. It's not all about looks.. Hope that helps.

Soop December 26, 2009 at 12:44 AM  

okay broooo!!!! let me school you... lol nah.. but.. let me let you in on some info comin straight from a gay girl herself..

SO, i could go on and on and on AND ON about this topic but i'll keep it short as possible.. mainly cause i wanna get back to tweetin but...ok...

the majority of studs are not fake guys. do not want to be guys.. and sometimes dont even look like guys.. most... i say most because there are a few... are very in touch with the fact that they are female... thats number one..

number two...being with a stud or having sex with a strap, has nothing to do with gender.. wanting to fuck with a strap doesnt make u any less gay.. just means you're a gay chick who likes penetration. Studs / AG (aggressive) / Doms (dominant) are called those because they are, simply put, the more dominant person in the relationship.

If a girl dates a woman because she had bad experiences with a man and wants to cross over.. 9/10 she's a sike a dyke and wants dick, so will take the next close thing.. only to realize that dealing with females is just as hard, if not 10 times harder. ...

A Hope i helped..

Anonymous December 26, 2009 at 8:47 AM  

Ummm duh. They like girls, not men. Even if the stud looks like a guy, its still a girl you idiots.

Kim December 26, 2009 at 9:58 AM  

you're making complete sense because i don't get it either. i personally prefer the REAL thing. I couldn't feel 100% secure with another chick at all. I mean we have the same parts! lol.

Anonymous December 26, 2009 at 1:29 PM  

it can be so many reasons why they do and at first i was like you, likke wtf is the point, but now i kno lol
1-they like women, but they dont like girly women, as in they want some kinda masculinity, but they dont want a man, soo a studs the next best thing
2-a lot of studs dont like to be pleasured they do all the pleasuring compared to lipstick lesbians, so the grl mite jus be selfish (in bed) lol
3-a stud is like a man, except for she still has that emotional side to her because at the end of the day she IS A WOMAN. so shes basically a man, with a womans mind lol. the lesbian finds this better than being with a man, cuz men are insensitive

Christina Love December 26, 2009 at 7:05 PM  

Idk if i want to agree or disagree. mmmhhhmm dont get me wrong i get what ur sayn i just dont know exactly.

SNEAkUHbUTT. December 27, 2009 at 12:05 AM  

It's not even about looks. It's the fact that girls understand girs more, regardless if they dress like dudes or what not.

- If you're a reader, try getting a hold of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Good book.

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