Tuesday, March 10, 2009

#1 Rule When it comes to dating

The #1 rule in dating is, don’t follow any fucking rules!! There are no rules; there is no dating regiment that was made hundreds of years ago. Everything you think is right about dating came from someone else who tried it and it didn’t work.

The whole females not calling rule or the three day rule. Bullshit. Waiting to have sex with someone, Bullshit. Now don’t raise your eyebrow about that. If you’re going to have sex with someone, ladies especially, if he isn’t interested in having a relationship with you or taking it to the next level but wants to have sex with you, he will fake being interested long enough to have sex with you and then fall back. So actually, waiting to have sex is a dumb idea because you’re only getting more interested in this guy and involving more emotions when he isn’t. If you would have had sex with him the first week and he fell back then at least you spared your emotions. Not saying you should just fuck every guy you meet, oh no! Just saying waiting to have sex doesn’t always end on a good note. The whole asking your girl friend for advice ladies is also the dumbest thing you can do. Unless your girl friend has been married twenty years and have a good dating rap sheet, if she does, then ask away. Chances are she isn’t so you’re taking advice on how to be happy with a guy from a female who doesn’t have a guy to be happy with. The whole rule that the guy has to pay for the dates is just stupid to me. If you want to go out, then go out even if you have to pay for it. When you see how much “dating” cost you realize how much he put out just to make YOU happy. Trust, some guys prefer home cooked meals over going out. It’s cheaper and more intimate. Some guys prefer a Blockbuster night over going to the movies. It’s cheaper and more intimate, and you can TALK and get cozy with the shit.

Guys, you’re not exempt from the rule shit either. Some guys believe that if a female sleeps with you the first night, she is a hoe. Dude, YOU’RE A HOE TOO; you slept with her as well so kill that. Stop with the insecurity, if she doesn’t like you she just don’t like you. If she is going to cheat, she is going to cheat no matter how much you play robo cop. Checking her phone is not cool; kill that parole officer mind state. Talk more; tell a female EXACTLY how you feel even if it’s kind of bad. Communication is important to a lot of females. Stop texting and emailing them when you can call, I fall victim to that some times. Stop thinking that if you get with a female, that you’re going to miss out on the other billion women in the world. News flash, they don’t want you. Yeah you will be missing out on having sex with other women but that aint shit. You can always teach dog new tricks, always. They have enough toys, positions, places to fuck, and lube to make sex great. So if you find a girl who you connect with and wouldn’t mind being with, see how much fun you guys can have by trying some new shit. The other billion women in the world will not put up with your shit so if you find love. KEEP IT! That shit doesn’t come around often.

There are no rules to dating. Just be smart about some things. Don’t be naive and dumb founded at the fact he or she MIGHT be the one. Have fun, dating is supposed to be fun and exciting. Whenever dating becomes about headaches and stress, LEAVE IT. I’m out. -DizZy


kmx. March 11, 2009 at 2:47 PM  

Well said m'dude. That whole man payin' for the date thing ain't poppin I always thought it was dumb.

Not so sure about the sex thing @ my age, but I feel where you comin' from w/ this one. Again, great post & keep em' comin.

Mala Mala March 11, 2009 at 2:48 PM  

Even though what you said about the girls waitin to have sex sounds madddd JERKfull[i kno thats not a word lol], its mad true

and umm thats crazyyy true about the boy being a hoe too for fuckin a girl the first night. Because i have this freind that swears this girl we know is a hoe cuz she let him beat like the 1st day, when he obviously fucked her too. she wasnt doin it by herself.

Omg and the phone thing really hits home, Cuz i had this bf for 2 years that was mad insecure and always got upset if i was just texting on my phone and used to fean to wanna search it.

But yea, i agree with your main idea, there are no rules to dating.

Beautiful Q March 11, 2009 at 2:51 PM  

Love it! Men and Women kills me with that whole its a "million" men/women out here. So what!!!

Fave Sentence: Talk more; tell a female EXACTLY how you feel even if it’s kind of bad. Communication is important to a lot of females

Thats all it takes, a lot guys don't realize that.

Nick March 11, 2009 at 3:09 PM  

Now thats a great post! I believe there should be no rules at all, it should be all like a freestyle or something. As long as you don't act like a fool, its all love. Come to think of it, even of you act like a fool, its "still" all love. lol

JuJu March 11, 2009 at 3:15 PM  

hahaha i love it!

Alexis March 11, 2009 at 3:33 PM  

---once again, great post.

people should do some self reflecting. I think there are ethics but there are no rules.

--- ol girl may not be a hoe..dude game may be so tight....she may just wanna get it in with dude night ONE.ha.

keep giving the streets what they want dizzy!!!!

Taylorgotbeats March 11, 2009 at 4:23 PM  

no rules no foals, I like this my dude

chavita!!! March 11, 2009 at 4:33 PM  

Hell yes!!!!

This is a great post honestly!

I was laughing when you said stop thinking about the billions of women in the world news flash they don't want you! Haha that's great lmao!!

I love it!

Real shit

A Day In The Life of {[TASH]} March 11, 2009 at 4:39 PM  

i love this , so true .. u need to do a seminar lol [seriously] people be lost..

Rai March 11, 2009 at 5:13 PM  

TRUE STUFF! I don't believe a guy should pay for a meal, etc.
But I WILL not be the only one paying lol.
In my relationship we take turns.

And that first statement for guys is true! smh. They are too stupid to realize that.

haha. I agree with all of this.

ALLtheHENNY. March 11, 2009 at 6:11 PM  

love it. and just recently me and dude were talkin bout me wantin to wait and he said the same thing. lol funny! i get where ya'll are coming from

Jodii Breeze March 11, 2009 at 6:14 PM  

Very well said! Great rule! I would add to that with one thing only and that is for the single people. . .DO NOT sit out and be constantly on the look for a relationship to happen because then you are just going to end up forcing things and looking desperate. Let a relationship find you. My boyfriend was NOT my TYPE of guy that I would normally date but I gave him a chance and we are 7 months strong and I have never been so happy in my life [=

Nick March 11, 2009 at 6:32 PM  

I read this again and had to drop another comment. Dude, this post is fantastic! Seriously

Yung Rutt Da Prince March 12, 2009 at 7:12 AM  

Where in the world do u come up with these thoughts? I mean I know that this happens to a lot of people, but the way u put it together bro is simply amazing. I have to give u a round of applause for how u put things into perspectives people don't usually think about. I sit back and wonder about the things u write about after I read them. It's great to have such a great mind in my inner circle. much love bro

Anonymous March 12, 2009 at 12:11 PM  

"Some guys believe that if a female sleeps with you the first night, she is a hoe. Dude, YOU’RE A HOE TOO"

ha ha...so eff'n true...fuxx those double standards...
damn dizz yuh need to be a counselor or sum shit..lol

A{dot}Shine March 12, 2009 at 4:16 PM  

might be the best one. dont know about that whole payin thing but heyyyy to each is own. everything is else bout right. kudos 2 dizzy

Anonymous March 13, 2009 at 6:44 AM  

I love it. It's so true from both angles. Keep it up.

LundiChantal March 14, 2009 at 8:55 PM  

ahhh!!! i really agree with this. im at this point i am at the point where i just want funn and just let whatever happens happens! never know what the future beholds lol

Katrina March 14, 2009 at 10:45 PM  

Agree with you very much so! Great post bud!

Tashur Raquel March 15, 2009 at 3:14 AM  

i likee this post!

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