Monday, July 27, 2009

My love.. Beautiful strong women..

I know that it may seem like I just bash women on here but that aint true. Yall feed off drama so that's what I feed yall. On the up and up I decided to express what kind of women I like.. Strong, beautiful, intelligent women. I love them with a passion. None of my girl friends have been over the top beautiful. None have had fat asses or big titties. I go off her mental. I can't go off beauty because my attitude won't allow me. Pretty girls sometimes have a lot of baggage, low self esteem, high ass standards, and attitudes that I can't deal with. Weak minded females always follow drama, easily persuaded, fall victim to distorted love over and over again. OVERLY independent women irk my fucking nerves. Look, I commend a woman on her shit, jobs, school, whatever else she may have going on but you will NEVER be fully independent. Why I say that? Because you will always need a man to be there and love you like a man should. None of that shit can hold you at night, love you, dick you down, take care of you.. A man can. As long as you want and or need something, you can't and will not be independent. I also have little shit I don't like such as whinning, dirty, out of tune with fashion, bad in bed, amongst other things, that keep me from really dating. I won't call it settling down, those who "settle" are never happy.

What really attracts me is a strong woman. A determined woman that is going after what she believes is hers. A woman who is strong mentally will always surpass a woman with beauty. I like "bitches" as well. I like a woman who is sweet AND can stand her ground with my crazy ass mouth. I throw a jab, I want you to combo my ass back. If you don't, I just lose interest over time. Reason I like strong women is because of my mom. She had me at 14. She was a damn baby when she had me. Sooo young that we was playing Nintendo together. But she had to make shit happen to take care of me and my sibblings. All my life, I've only seen her cry like twice. It wasn't over some dumb ass nigga breaking her heart or nothing like that. It was life that made her cry.. She kept 3 kids fed, clothed and at least halfway happy.. She did what she could. I seen that all my life so how could I go for something less? I can't.

I aint really interested from jumps by looks. I mean, she can't be just mongoose looking but I am more attracted to the conversation and connection. A girl keeps me by her attitude and if she is strong enough. Life is a bitch and a weak woman is soo unattractive. I have liked a woman I didn't really know before because I just got that vibe from her. Hearing her speak about certain shit, how she handles business and carry herself had me on her nuts! The world is HARD on women, specially black women and with fighting trying to keep their ground, they might lose sight on what's really important. Love and Happiness. Yeah, I'm on my Al Green shit. Yeah I'm impressed you got degrees and jobs and all that shit but can you make and keep a man happy? Can you take care of and mentally support a family with those degrees and jobs? A strong woman is worth gold to me. Hard to find. A lot of imitations, not the real thing tho. I might sound crazy but.. It's all good. You like what you like, I like what I like.. Peaaaace.


xxxx July 27, 2009 at 10:42 PM  

i love it.. i think this has been your best post yet and i can appreciate that you appreciate a strong woman. not alot of men do. my mom had me when she was 21 and she had a hard time i can count on one hand the amount of times i saw my mother cry, twice was over death, and twice because she almost lost me. my mom raised me and my twin by herself as soon as she found out she was pregnant my father was sent to jail. my mother raised on her own so everything i do is for her. i cant be anything less because she wasnt.
but i love the post. kudos to you. keep more like this coming <3

Athena Christine. July 28, 2009 at 6:27 AM  

Awe good job boo. I know it was probably a lot of women, like "damn, dizz...why you gotta keep talkin bad about women." I know your reason, shit...we act like that sometimes. But I like the post. Awe, you trynna get all mushy type! lol jp.

S.W. July 28, 2009 at 8:56 AM  

I Knew Dizzy Wasn't Shallow. Dont let those other stories fool you. Anyway. Like I Said Dizzy Im reading and Watching I Just Pick and Choose what I Comment On. Haha!!

And YES LADIES. Any female that ever ends up in any kind of relationship whether your his friend or intimate exclusive whatever you may call it, YOU HAVE TO THROW JABS BACK. He has a smart ass mouth.

Anywhoo. Ciao Dizz. Talk to you later.

Adrienne Nycole July 28, 2009 at 9:26 AM  

this is niiiice :o) and i love the picture! <3

Kim July 28, 2009 at 10:00 AM  

I'm glad you made this post. It shows that you're in fact not that typical black man who just goes for the shallow female with little substance or future goals.
You're right, it still is hard for black females because each day is a challenge. Whether it's trying to raise kids as a single mother, working from check to check to get the bills paid, or just trying to survive period. But we're always able to find a way to overcome any obstacle. It's often hard to be taken seriously because there's always that stigma of an "angry black woman" that is assumed when a strong female speaks her mind. You wanting a strong black woman shows that you're a strong black man; because not a lot of men would admit what you did and I respect that.

Wonderful post.

Sarah Lael Caracter July 28, 2009 at 1:40 PM  

Damn. . i just wrote about sumn like this. i love how you expresssed a strong woman, one such as your mom. & shittt, she sound like one of the strongest women ever. big ups to you, this post & moms fareal.

;D ♥SarahLael

The Virgin Queen: YonAndrogynous July 28, 2009 at 2:24 PM  

Women nowadays believe that they have to appear better off without the man for him to want her. It's not like that. Life is built on relationships so men and women need each other. Women fail to realize the more they amy 'boast' about what they have accomplished, they push away men. Hmph. A strong minded person reigns over beauty, for beauty will deteriorate before the mind can crumble to the nonsense of the world.

Qu33n Kam... July 28, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

this is one of the realest things u ever wrote!! I understand how u feel because being shallow close minded/weak minded is actually what makes a person ugly. Looks fade but being smart/interesting is forever, everyone should live by this and then then chances of gettin ur heart broken is slim. PPl get so caught up in the superficial and thats why their lives never go anywhere.

Lauren S July 28, 2009 at 6:36 PM  

I love your blog, man! This last post was really enlightening. I like that you were honest about making compromise to find the right girl for you. Just looks definitely won't cut it in the long run. Most guys don't get that. Way to stay one step ahead. That's what's up :)

Rodrika July 28, 2009 at 8:06 PM  

amen is all this post needs...amen...

♪ ♪ Fř£Sh pŘîNÇëSš™ August 2, 2009 at 4:52 PM  

glad 2 know someone still has enough sense 2 post this
loved every word..

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